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The goal of this website is teaching how to build better
rapport. We suppose you have already followed one of our
free tutorials on NLP you can find starting from www.neurolinguistic.com
, our sponsor site. A key-concept is matching. In NLP we can
find how someone codes the information he's getting or
giving. You can then begin to match the modes by using the
predicates and physiology that match their representational
system. It clearly appears that if we manage to interact
with this specific channel, we'll involve emotionally those
who we face, going beyond simple empathy. Our task consists
in tracing the information strategy of the subject. But
another system able to establish an empathic relationship
exists: Being mirrored. It means to reflect the physiology
of our converser and the tone of their voice. Or rather we
have to take on a posture resembling theirs. The other looks
as they have found themselves in front of a mirror and they
will feel unconsciously acknowledged because they think they
are facing someone like them, they will feel approved. |
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